Glossary term

Foreplay

Also known as warming upbuild-upgetting in the mood

Foreplay is the intimate build-up — kissing, touch, teasing, words — that increases arousal and connection before or alongside other activity.

The gist

Foreplay is everything that builds anticipation and arousal: kissing, touching, teasing, undressing, and talk. Far from optional, it's often where much of the pleasure lives, and unhurried foreplay tends to make everything that follows feel better and more connected.

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