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How compatible are you really?

This free couples compatibility quiz measures how aligned you are across five sides of a sex life — adventure, communication, initiation, novelty and sharing. You each answer 16 quick questions privately; the shared result shows how close you are on each, never your individual answers, plus a few conversation starters.

Before you start.

Answer honestly and privately. You control what happens next, and nothing is ever shared without you choosing to.

How it works
  1. 1

    Answer 16 questions

    Rate how much you agree with each statement, privately. There are no wrong answers.

  2. 2

    Share a code

    Send your partner a private code. They take the same quiz on their own.

  3. 3

    See your alignment

    When you both reveal, you'll see how aligned you are on each dimension — plus tailored conversation starters.

Good to know

The questions people ask.

Will my partner see my answers?

No. The shared result shows only how ALIGNED you are on each dimension — never either person's individual answers.

How long does it take?

About three minutes each. You answer independently, whenever suits you.

Do we need accounts?

No — it's completely free and account-free. A free Fervra account is there if you want to keep exploring together.

Is it a real compatibility score?

It's a conversation tool, not a verdict. Low alignment on something isn't bad — it just points at a good chat to have.