Missionary
Also known as face to faceman on topfront-to-front
Missionary is a front-to-front position where one partner lies on their back and the other faces them from above — prized for eye contact, closeness, and easy communication.
The gist
One of the most familiar positions for a reason: partners face each other, which makes it easy to read expressions, kiss, talk, and stay emotionally connected. It suits slow, tender pacing as comfortably as more energetic rhythms, and small adjustments — a pillow under the hips, bent or lifted legs — noticeably change the angle and depth.
Step by step
The receiving partner lies comfortably on their back, knees relaxed and slightly bent.
The other partner settles above, supporting their weight on hands, forearms, or elbows.
Find a shared rhythm, checking in with eye contact and touch.
Adjust leg height or add a pillow under the hips to change the angle.
Tips
- A cushion under the hips tilts the angle and can make things more comfortable for both partners.
- Keep a hand free for touch and a running check-in — this position makes talking effortless, so use it.
Related
Spooning
Spooning is a side-lying, rear-facing position where both partners lie on their sides nestled together — one of the gentlest, coziest, and most relaxed options.
Cowgirl (riding)
Cowgirl is a partner-on-top position where the receiving partner sits astride and faces their partner — putting them in control of angle, depth, and pace.