Position18+

Spitroast

Also known as spit roastfront and backdouble team

The Spitroast is a three-person position where the receiving partner is between two partners — one in front, one behind — a common configuration in threesomes built on clear consent from everyone.

It's one of the most-requested threesome positions, and also one where the emotional groundwork matters as much as the physical. Three people means three sets of boundaries, and the couples-plus-one dynamic needs talking through before anyone's in the room. The full guide covers negotiating a three-person scene, positioning and pacing, and keeping everyone genuinely enthusiastic throughout.

What’s inside the full playbook

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  • Negotiating boundaries with three people
  • Positioning and pacing for comfort
  • Non-verbal cues when everyone's occupied
  • Checking in without killing the mood
  • Aftercare for all three — including jealousy check-ins

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