Watching & being watched
Also known as voyeurismexhibitionismwatch each other
Watching and being watched explores consensual voyeurism and exhibitionism at home — one partner performing while the other watches, or watching each other — built entirely on mutual consent and privacy.
The thrill of watching and being watched is one of the most common fantasies, and the easiest to keep entirely between two people: a mirror, a bit of performance, permission to look and be looked at. Done at home it's safe, private, and surprisingly freeing. The full guide covers building the confidence to perform, directing each other, and keeping it consensual and private.
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- Performing for a partner — building the confidence
- Watching, directing, and narrating
- Using mirrors to watch yourselves
- Keeping it private and consensual
- Talking through the vulnerability afterward
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